Infinite Human Complexity

by Megan M. on August 2, 2010

When I talk about change and growth and dynamic human potential — along with our opportunities to catalyze and reflect same — listeners seem to assume that this is my true passion.

When I talk about music, listeners seem to assume that music, truly is my one great passion.

Internet, business and design often get relegated to the edges; those must be her “day job”, people think. (Shameful!)

But it doesn’t work this way.

Indulging more than one passion at a time is challenging, for sure. It makes me feel like I have two full-time jobs. Three. Four. It’s not sustainable and although I feel drawn to attempt it every so often, it will be better when I take one big thing at a time, accompanied by a gentle stream of little things. That’s why you haven’t heard much from me in the Think Tank the last week: I’ve been in Wales. Singing.

Once upon a time, I would have been horrified at the prospect of taking time off of one thing to do another. Looking back, I can’t even really untangle the why and wherefore except to say that turning off was scary — it meant that I would drop a ball or three, and suffer for it later. These days (especially with Charlie in my corner) I have a better perspective on all of that. And I have little systems that I’ve built over time, organically, cell by cell… that allay these fears. Thank goodness, too, or I wouldn’t be able to show you these:

Each one of us is infinitely complex. I don’t have “a passion”. I don’t have “two passions”. You and I, we have current projects and past projects and future projects. We want to move towards the thing that most resonates with us, right now. But I’m not “a singer”. You’re not “a life coach”. Marty isn’t “an illustrator.” Although we are tempted to define ourselves using those labels, even when we admit that each label is surrounded by a unique lasagne of human complexity and experience, the labels give us the short end of the stick. The truth is, you may not always be an accountant or a craftswoman or an illustrator. Sometimes you will be more that thing, sometimes you will be less.

And while it is necessary to have some label for everyday use — “Hi! I’m Marty, and I do illustration work for a living!” — it is unwise to think that “the label, plus some” is what you are. It’s not true. You’re you.

And I’m me.

And these are the things I do (right now).

And that’s enough.

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Megan Elizabeth Morris (aka MEM, Megan the M.) is a bonafide professional catalyst and adventurer. She's the Ideaschema instigator, orchestrator and autodidact, and you can find out more about her by clicking here.

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  • http://www.scoutiegirl.com tara – scoutie girl

    I think the key here is that there's a big difference between trying to find your singular PASSION – and – being PASSIONATE.

    Like you, I can't just choose one thing. On any given day I hurl myself into whatever part of my job I'm doing at the moment – writing, brainstorming, web design, whatever. I tend to be passionate about whatever I do and that enthusiasm & authenticity makes me successful.

  • http://twitter.com/a_creative_life Melissa Dinwiddie

    Ah, what a lovely post! From a confirmed multi-passionate person (and fellow singer, artist and writer, btw), your post describes exactly how I've been living my entire life, except that I've spent most of that time *wrestling* with labels. They've never sat comfortably on me, but I still try to make them fit.

    I think it's human nature to categorize and label, but it does pose problems for many, if not all, of us.

    Thanks for the reminder that we are not our labels.

  • judyofthewoods

    Oh how I hate pidgeon holes and drawers.

    I prefer see our life styles like a pearl necklace. Each pearl is a venture, a project, a creation, on strands of passion and creativity – the constants of our lives.

    Are you at the Eisteddfod? Waving hallo! from just up the A40 in Pembrokeshire. If you are competing, good luck.

  • Guest

    Totally irrelevant to this post but I just wanted to take a minute to say, “I think you and Martin are wonderful young people and I wish you all the best life has to offer.” Have a great life.

  • http://jdmeier.myopenid.com/ J.D. Meier

    > each label is surrounded by a unique lasagne
    Now that is poetry in motion.

    We do have to be careful what we wrap our identities to and how we figure out who we are.

    I always liked the answer to “Who are you?” from Peaceful Warrior … “This moment.”

  • http://angerflex.com/ Mike Kirkeberg

    Good one! I used to work in rehab. Hope I don't get in trouble with the 12 step crowd, but it would irritate me to no end when a) someone would say, “Hi, I'm Oglethorpe, and I'm an alcoholic (or some other term like that”) and b) when staff would encourage them to do so. One guy, let's call him Joe, did it differently. He said, “My name is Joe, and sometimes I drink like damn fish and it gets me in a shitload of trouble.”

    Refreshing!

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